Baby's father drama, plz help.?

Hello, first I am going to start with a statement %26quot;Don%26#039;t waste your money on the Hollywood diet, it doesn%26#039;t work, It%26#039;s a waste of money%26quot; Well I have a child a three years old , me and the father were in court fighting custody, but in the middle of the chaos if decide not to appear in court or visits anymore. recenlty I was told by a friens of him that he said that he misses his child and that he would do anything to see he again at least in a recent picture. Well I wasn%26#039;t raised with a father, it was just my mother and me. I try to put myself in this shoes (the baby) and try to see what he would like, If he decides to go back to court it will not be pleasant he miss 26/25 visit, I was thinking of giving him a picture, but I am confused.Please give me advise, I am so lost I want to do what%26#039;s best for my son. Please , thanks in advance.

Baby%26#039;s father drama, plz help.?
If he REALLY wants to see his son, he should go about it through the court. When the court gives visitation, he has to be there or they will take his visits away again. I know it seems rough, but honestly, your baby deserves a full time dad, not just someone who comes around once in a while to see whats up! He also needs to help financially....so let the courts deal with it...In the long run, it will be better for your son. As for pictures, sure....why not. It is his child, but I would suggest getting some of the dad to, to put away in a book for your son as he grows up....JUST IN CASE!
Reply:meet in a public place for him to see the child that way nothing bad can happen
Reply:If your baby%26#039;s father wanted a picture of your son bad enough, he could get one. All he has to do is take one the next time he visits, if he chooses not to visit, then he chooses not to have a picture of your son. Your baby%26#039;s daddy needs to grow up and figure out how to make it work between the 2 of you for the sake of your child.
Reply:Meet him at a park or McD%26#039;s playland. Have pictures of the child with you, and, give them to him. Allow him to spend some time with the child. If he wants to be a daddy, your child will appreciate a not-great daddy more than no daddy. I would suggest working it out with him until he can get back into court. As his mom, you need to think about your son. He needs his dad, if dad is willing to be there.
Reply:If he has visitation rights, you can%26#039;t really keep him from seeing the child. If he is missing his visitations you could sue for more child support.





Don%26#039;t keep the child from his dad or say bad things about his dad in front of the child.





Sorry that you are going through all this. Give the dad a picture. If he keeps jumping in and out of child%26#039;s life you might talk to the attorney about it and see what judge thinks would be best to do.
Reply:I would just give him a pic. but nothing else because you have to make it look like you are letting him be a part of his life. I am not sure how your state is but in mine if the dad wants to be a part even one day of the year, on his time and you say no, he could use that against you in court and he could end up with the kid. The courts think it%26#039;s better to have a bad father then no father. But don%26#039;t give up to much you don%26#039;t want to go to fast. Before you or your son are ready.



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