What would you think if a man bought your 3-year old son a pair of shoes.?

We are intimate, but he says he isn%26#039;t ready for a relationship right now. But he says he likes being with me. Why would he buy my son shoes - and kiss my baby?

What would you think if a man bought your 3-year old son a pair of shoes.?
I am a 28 year old man who recently got divorced. In my experience this man probably wants a relationship with you but he wants to test the waters first. Dont rely on him being around. He may fall in love, he might not. Nature has to take its course, you cant force it. Good luck on your love life and always make sure that he is right for your kids. He probably bought the shoes to show you that he cares about you and your kids. This still doesnt mean that he will want to marry you. God bless.
Reply:Prolly being nice
Reply:Just because he said he wasn%26#039;t ready for a relationship doesn%26#039;t make him a bad person. He sounds like he is both thoughtful and considerate. Give it some time....slowly...... If he%26#039;s showing this kind of compassion, maybe his feelings are growing.
Reply:he obviously thinks the world of you both, he said %26quot;He%26quot; isn%26#039;t ready for a relationship just yet, looks like hes taking it slowly and probably wants to be sure and especially if you have a 2 year old.


he sounds wonderful.
Reply:Well, I%26#039;m not really sure. With me, I don%26#039;t bring guys around my daughter UNLESS I%26#039;m in a serious relationship with them. I don%26#039;t want any confusion there. I have only had one man around her, besides her father, maybe he likes kids, maybe he%26#039;s trying to see if he can handle a ready made family. Why not just ask him. Next time be more selective with who you bring around your son, you never know what people are capable of.
Reply:I don%26#039;t know... Tell him you thought it was really really weird and uncalled for. And that you don%26#039;t really %26quot;get%26quot; him. Guys don%26#039;t ever really know what they want, but this one is leading you on!
Reply:maybe he is interested in you and is trying to get though to you though your son and he is trying to show you how responsible he is with your son
Reply:I would think that I just scored a free pair of shoes for my three year old!
Reply:I would take a step back before you get hurt, and before your child ends up getting attached to this man who doesn%26#039;t know what he wants from you to begin with. It is no doubt that he must love kids, yours especially, but he does not know if he wants to make the commitment to you. Move on, find somebody who wants the whole package.
Reply:LOVE ME LOVE MY CAT IS BEING APPLIED HERE AND IS GOOD SIGN OF CARING.
Reply:Just because he isn%26#039;t ready for a relationship doesn%26#039;t mean he doesn%26#039;t want one at all. He sounds like he just wants to take it slow.


He likes kids, great. He likes yours-even better. Feel lucky right now, because if this relationship blossoms, he will be a great male figure for your kids to be around.
Reply:Maybe the 2 of you are growing on him!
Reply:I guess he likes your kids and he bought your son a pair of shoes? Thats weird. and BIG mistake your intimate with him and he isnt ready for a relationship? Thats bad. ALWAYS make sure a man is totally committed to you before you start sleeping with him. Now your going to burned it sounds like that guy doesn%26#039;t want to have a relationship any time soon. He could be sleeping with other women that might be one reason he doesn%26#039;t want a relationship right now. But hey thats just my opinion.
Reply:maybe hes not ready to absolutly commit himself yet bacause he doesnt want to disapoint if things dont work out. But that doesnt take away from him showing affection for you and your children... Dont rush him, he%26#039;ll make it there on his own..
Reply:hes probably attached to your kids,but doesn%26quot;t want to be with you.
Reply:he likes your baby or maybe he just likes children period. maybe he thinks your son is cute. and he could be trying to prove something to you.
Reply:cuz he loves kids and he wants to show you how good with kids he can be
Reply:Girl don%26#039;t put too much into it......take it for exactly what he says....he%26#039;s not ready for a serious relationship...you can%26#039;t take what he says and make it to what you want to hear...when he%26#039;s ready he%26#039;ll tell you...but for now accept the gifts..be grateful...and enjoy anything he throws your way...
Reply:Maybe he just likes kids and wants some his self one day. Try talking to him seriously about your feelings and concerns and maybe you can figure your questions out directly from him. Good luck!
Reply:he has special love for the family as a whole. it happens
Reply:wow maybe he likes the kid
Reply:Why not?





Perhaps he is just being nice.





Or perhaps he is a perv, and you should hire a billboard telling the world that you think he is.





Try asking him.
Reply:He may not be ready for a relationship now, but he%26#039;s showing you that when he is ready he%26#039;d be a great father-figure.
Reply:Could it be that this man is a CHILD MOLESTER? Why would you take the chance of putting your baby in danger of being SEXUALLY MOLESTED?????????? You should be home with your baby instead of thinking of what YOU want and out giving it up to someone who isn%26#039;t interested in you! Where is your baby%26#039;s father, and if he%26#039;s not in the picture, why would you EVEN think of getting involved with ANYONE instead of concentrating on raising your son.



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